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        am my own old age
 
  There 
        is not any experience where we would not find a lesson. When we stop learning, 
        our lives will end in the true sense of the word. Yet the sense of life 
        means to live, to enjoy our lives and embark on new and more hectic experiences 
        without fear.
           The only 
        way how to find out what is possible is often tracking down what is impossible, 
        in other words, making mistakes.
 Ageing 
        is nothing else than a bad habit for which a really busy person has no 
        time at all. You cannot determine the length of your life but you can 
        give it its wideness and intensity. You cannot determine the features 
        of your face but you can rule its expression. You cannot direct the others´ 
        approach to their opportunities either but you can take yours up. You 
        can devote yourself to things you can influence.
           There 
        was a time in my life when I doubted the values of ageing and the old 
        age itself. Now I have already lost my doubts. I do not want to avoid 
        my old age in the same way as I would not want to leap over my childhood 
        and adolescence. I surely feel my growing responsibility to my future 
        self and to those whose lives possibly cross my life. What an old man 
        I am going to be in case I live to the ripe age?           The 
        answer depends on what a person I am right now. Old age is a period which 
        has been awaiting me for all my lifetime.  Having a chance to find something by which a man will lead his life 
        after his productive age is no less important than a good pension or drawn 
        burial allowance. After all, using our ancestors´ wisdom, " every 
        age has its own adventures if the heart is not dead".           And 
        dying is the most treacherous ailment that can afflict our grown grey 
        civilization. 
 U3A, 5 April 2002  |