Reply from Ulm
Stand:
SCHWIEBERT: How do your children behave towards the older people? Is
there frequent personal contact? Are the older lodgers sometimes advisers for
them? (For instance, we at Ulm have a successful project group "Old help
young".)
NIEBIUS: Myriam and Melanie were only 3-4 years old when we began our
"Altenpflegefamilie" project". Martin and Tobias were born into
this family. The contact to the old people is completely relaxed, kind and all
have equal rights. Myriam has for example learned to play piano from one of our
ladies, Martin learned handicraft from one of our gentlemen. Together they made
wood carvings. There are many examples how the young can learn from the old and
vice versa.. However, our lodgers are getting older when they join our house and
the need for nursing care is increasing. We experience here a human exchange on
behalf of our children. The older people like to spend time with young people
and feel closeness and warmth. All old people like the faces of children and
young people. They remember-their own youth and tell eagerly about this. Young
people like to listen to these stories.
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